Monday, 22 March 2010

  • Business Etiquette and previous SO

     



    Have you ever had a girlfriend/boyfriend that you did "favors" for when you were together for free with no problem and then you broke up?

    I have this friend and at one time we were an item. When we were together I always did here
    brakes on her car. Though we are not together we have discussed a serious relationship and the maybe being together again and if that works marriage. But the question is should I charge her a fee for doing her brakes, or just stop doing them all together?

Monday, 15 March 2010

  • Bieng gay is it biblically acceptable now??

    I been wondering since gays and lesbians are getting the right to marry now. I feel that soon there will be acceptance for every state to allow gays and lesbians to marry, since fornication is classified as being premarital sex, if gays and lesbians  get married will that still be considered fornication by law?
    What do you think?
  • Tug-o-war

    If have every been in a relationship, what do you do when your SO and your parents dont get along? Sometimes it feels as if you would lose it all as far as the relationship goes. What happens when they are fighting over you in a way saying that the other isnt doing right by you, and you are basically stuck in the middle, what would you do?

Thursday, 18 February 2010

  • Am I Entitled to to My Own Life,

    At what point does my life become an extension of my parents? Can I base my life on everything that I was taught as a child? Ive been spent the last years of high school searching for something that make life worth wild. In the south going to church is weaved into the fabric of life. If you don't participate in religious congregation your a heathen. Not to make this a banter against religion, at what point does the dysfunction of a family become motivated by portraying an the appearance of  something that you are not.
      I was raised to go to school, get a job and get out their house. That is something that is well within reach, at times. School is over and im going to the Navy now, but my thing is to not return to these fake persona of being a God seeking person. To me life has become the pursuit of Love. A nurturing environment that appeals to the overall good of myself and those around me and not the pursuit of something that slowly kills us all.....being lonely and disassociated from the world and people because I was raised to believe that I'm better than everyone.
    The Navy as an institution wont be the most emotionally nurturing place but I Do feel that their pillars of charactor ( Strength Courage Commitment and Honor) will allow me to flourish in the workplace.  So with that Get a job and get out the house will be accomplished.
        Being the a socially anorexic person that I have grown to be over these last few years have cause me to drift toward Inanimate intimacy: being on facebook all day, watching tv more than i should and declining dates with some of the most beautiful people i know cuz i have a overly romanticized outlook on their lives in relation to my own. I spend time with family but as well all know that family(parents aunts uncles and older cuzins) is not like friends and other peers that are more ur age.
    More specifically my girlfriend she and I where having alot of issues  and ending up being "just Friend" and finally moving away from each other cuz of  my families feeling of entitlement in controlling my life. either way now that i have a new fresh beginning coming up i want to make the most of the new friends and any new girlfriends that  i may encounter.
    Leaving all these old feelings and emotions in the past isnt as hard cause the possibilities are just like going to college all over again!

Tuesday, 19 January 2010

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